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Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe.

They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you dont feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day!"

I want to tell you that everything will be alright no matter how bad things are. You can get out of whatever problems your have right now, believe me. Just remember, when life is giving you a lot of bad things, the future will be bright for you. Things will change.

I know it can be hard but please, do not give up on this. Don't let bad things destroy yourself. Fight for your happiness and don't give up. It is okay to cry or take things slow so there's no need to worry.

I feel like everyone who reads this should try something new tomorrow! Like talk to the lonely kid or wear an outfit your less confident in. Just do something brave or kind or something that makes you smile. Laugh so hard that you can hardly breathe.

Smile at your self in the mirror and say good morning and good night. Just love who you are and where you are lucky to be at even through hard times you could be facing.

I'm really depressed..I'm really missing my old me..the bright and happy-go-lucky one...the one doesn't even care about others thoughts..live her life as she want..I'm really missing her...

Friends Closet

Friends Closet Inspiration

Hello to whoever reading this and I hope you're having a great day!

So I have been seeing this trend on the internet, where people are recreating outfits from the famous TV show friends. And I thought that was hella creative, so in this blog I'll go back in time and list some of my favourite outfits and don't worry it's not only Rachel's 😂

 

Let's start already!

So first let me start with...

*Rachel Green Iconic Outfits :

1)Rachel's see through dress :

This dress is so beatiful that you can't stop looking at, it's a simple little black dress underneath a cheer long sleeve flowery Mesh dress. And what makes it more beautiful is that it's still trendy nowadays.

2)Rachel's oversized high-waisted pants and white crop top:

Okay this outfit is sublime y'all ! The combination of the colours is fantastic and I'm not even overdiscribing it. The wole outfit is perfection.

*Moving on to Monica...

1) Monica's striped pants and black crop top:

 Whenever I watch " The one with the thumb" episode I only focus on Monica's outfit it's just well combined together and looks comfy at the same time.

2)Monica's Iconic thnuder red dress:

In "The one with Monica's thunder" episode Monica pulls off a gorgeous red dress with a V neck and it fits her body perfectly. Along with her down hair and a red lipstick as well she nails this outfit!

Monica and red are a loooooong love story!

*Now Phoebe!!

 

1) Pheoebe's Iconic long black dress: 

"If we were in prison, you guys would be like my bitches."

I don't think anyone can pull off a long dress like phoebe does, because of her gorgeous long physique she was  able to look amazing in this dress along with long-sleeves white sweater and some weird accesssories.

2)Phoebe's indigo outfit:

This outfit speaks for itslef, the indigo combination from the jean jacket to the navy blue skirt along with her cute hairstyle it's just perfect.

Toxic

I don't know how to begin this blog, but when life becomes too much you have to let it out so you can feel much better.

In my life I have never thought being friendly with people could lead to a lot of problems, overtrusting them, overtelling them everything about you and mostly overspending time with them.
Despite the fact of being friendly with people, they don't miss a chance of hurting you over and over again.You say why? It's simple, they absorb your kindness and trun it into something evil or whatever the hell it is.

Sadly, you try to protect yourself to not fall in the trap again, so you become overprotective of yourself, you don't trust people the way you used to. It feels good at first, but then you realize that you over did it, and there's no one beside you to talk to, or a shoulder to cry on. You start in someway blaming yourself, and then you take a look at the past and how you chose not to get hurt again.
However, choosing to be distant and alone will never be a good choice, you can never lock yourself in your little shell forever.

Instead of playing the losing card, be the winner! Make your rules, study poeple, set up your goals...
Yes you got hurt and yes admit it, it's not a sin neither your fault, only weak people who give up too soon and quit everything. When in reality, there are other poeple wo reached their hands to help, but you were too ignorant to even notice...

SIMPLE WAYS TO BE HAPPIER

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Sometimes little things can make a difference in your life, they can make you realize that it's not too late to find happiness. You can find it in a; a person, a book , or even a piece of music. 

We try to complicate life way too much and it's not even worth it, those who forget stress and live in the moment enjoy it to the fullest.

Listen to Music 🎶:

Music is used as a treatement in some hospitals in some countries, so it really does relax you and put you in a better mood, it's okay to listen to music others don't agree on. As long as you enjoy it and feel it, other's judgments won't matter. When you listen to it, clear your mind and feel it with your whole body, and mumble the lyrics as well. Enjoy it to the fullest, whenever you feel blue.

Spread Love 💖: 

As we all know love brought dead people back to life, 

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage. Both giving and receiving the truest form of love will make you feel on top of the world and nothing less.

Love can come in all shapes and sizes, try to hug your mom, or say I love you to your love partner, try to express your feelings and avoid keeping it inside.

Watch your favourite Movie 🎬:

We can all agree that bingewatching your favourite movie , can for sure put you in a better mood. Create a cozy atmosphere, some pillows, snacks, and a coffee and you're ready to enjoy your movie. 

The feeling of seeing your favourite movies after a long tiring day is undiscribable, I always thought that movies can make your life much better.

Do Yoga (Maditation) 🧘‍♀️:

When I'm angry or stressed I would highly recommand doing Yoga, put some realxing playlist for like half and hour, clear your mind, and take a deep breath.

I used to go to a guru to do Yoga, and it helped me a lot, I have never thought it would help me but if you start to believe, it certainly will.

By clearing your mind, you will be able to get rid of the stress and life routine...

Food 🍕:

Whatever the issue is how small or how big it is, food will always fix it right away. If you had a breakdown, go cook some pasta or even order a pizza. Believe me, this will let forget you whatever bad happened to you in that day.
Food will always be there for you, no matter happens for me it's comfort...

Get rid of Social Media 📴 :

 Sometimes social media can be a dark place, it can get really toxic. Especially, when you feel down and you see others happy you, will feel even sadder.
I say; delete all those apps, because you control them not the other way around. And try to enjoy your real life more...

Don't forget that if you want to be happy, you can and you'll be. These are just some tips to help that's all.

LIFE LESSONS ROMCOMS TAUGHT ME:

RomComs changed my life and here's why:

"Sometimes you just love a person just because they feel like home."

—  Bridget Jones

Since I was a little girl RomComs have been my favourite genre of movies, they're more of a guilty pleasure of mine. I remember when I used to run as fast as I can to get early from school, to catch 

a movie where the guy comes to the airport at the last minute and confesses or the girl ruins his wedding and run away with to get married in a boat at the middle of the sea.

This genre of movies took a huge part of my life and indeed taught me a valuable life lessons, and made who Iam today, many people think it's cheesy and predictable but sadly that's whats makes the way it is.
So in this blog, I'll be talking about how RomComs encourage "Women Empowerment" and always calls for their independance. Since today it's National women's day I thought it will be a perfect opportunity to write about it.

• YOUR JOB IS YOUR FIRST PRIORITY:

*The Devil Wears Prada*

In the world of romcoms the girl has her dream job, a journalist in a big major fashion magazine or a news reporter in one of the biggest channels in the country. But, suddenly she meets him and her work life gets delayed, luckily thats not the case in "The Devil Wears Prada" Andy is an ambitions person, who will do anything for her job to get to the position she always dreamt of. Working as an assistant of the dragon Lady made her realize that het job is her first priority, even though made her sacrifice her love life, her friends and even her family. Andy is the ideal example of the person who will risk it all for the sake of her career.

• LOVE YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE :

*Bridget Jones' Diary*

As we see in Romcoms, the girl appears perfect and has no flaws. But sadly, that's not the case For "Bridget Jones" she's 30, single, hates her job and hates her body. Bridget throughout the movie tried to make News Year's Resolution by quitting smoking, trying to have a boyfriend and losing weight. However, Mark Darcy tells her that he likes her just the way she is. Suddenly she realizes that if someone could like you for who you are , why wouldn't you do that YOURSELF?

 I mean it's okay to be over weight we all love to eat! And surely it is fine to not have a boyfriend because it's just not that easy. Life is not a piece of cake, you can't have it all. Try to accept your reality and stop trying to achieve perfection.

• BUILD YOUR OWN PERSONALITY :

*10 Things I Hate About You*

Sadly we live in a world controlled by apperances, everyone wants to dress according to the newest fashion trends, or the newest hairstyles or even your lifestyle. However , Kate Strawford from "10 Things I hate about You" never tried to follow others, she was always unique in her own way. Kat is the girl, that reads Simone De Bouvoir and disses Hemingway, she listens to Hard Indian Girl Rock bands, adores giving straight and honest opinons in front of her teachers and never fears detention.
Despite the fact that her younger sister Bianca is so popular, she tries to avoid it all the time, she wants to go beyond people's expectations.

• CONTROL YOUR OWN LIFE :

*A Cinderella Story*

I think we all know the sad story of Cinderella, the poor little girl who lost both her parents and had to obey the orders of her stepmother and sisters. Well one of my favourite romcoms " A Cinderella Story" brings out the story in a modern way, Sam is a brilliant student, whos dream is to join Princeton but had to work her ass off at the diner to gain money. Her stepmother Fiona decides what Sam has to do, calls her ugly and stupid and even prevents her from going to the hlloween party to meet the only boy she ever liked.

So Sam finally decides to make a move so she quits her work, gets out of the house and tells Fiona to give her back all the years she took from her, she also faces Austin and tells him that he's mature enough to choose what to do with his future. We love a BOSSY LADY!!!

• DON'T FEEL RESPONSIBLE OF OTHER PEOPLE'S FAILURE:

*Clueless*

Well well well of course I'm gonna mention Cher and her powerful character in "Clueless". This 90's Icon is only famous for her brillilant fashion choices, but for me she was an independant young lady, that feels responsible of other people's lame lives, her character was inspired by Jane Austen's Emma. Emma, was always trying to make everyone happy but herself. Cher is the popular girl in her high school, but she uses her popularity to do good deeds. A new girl came to her high school, Tai seemed clueless, so Cher felt like she needs to guide her and do a makeover to her.

Little did she know, Cher realized that her help turned out to be against her, she finally saw that trying to fix other people's lives won't make yours any better, you don't have to feel sorry for other's failures or bad choices. As women, we need to focus on our own lives and try to live it to the fullest!

• KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE, AND YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER:

*13 Going On 30*

As we all know, it could get really competing when it comes to your collegues.Well , in the case of Jenna Rink in "13 Going On 30", the friend she thought she had the closest hated her and always jealous of her success. Jenna is a 30 year old lady, whos successful at her job, has the perfect Manhattan apartment and a georgeous physique.

Sadly, the friend she thought she had, was a selfish person who's always been jealous of. So Jenna turned her weakness into a strangth and done an amazing project in order to  save the future of her magazine.

Jenna tought me that you should always think twice when it comes to your career, you never know those who you thought they were your friends are actually the people who want to see you fail.

• PROVE THEM WRONG:

*Legally Blonde*

Not all blondes are dumb in the case of Elle Woods in "Legally Blonde" a barbie popular girl was the 

president of her serority imposes herself into a whole new field ( law ) from what she used to be in . Well after changing her thoughts she goes to Harvard to study Law to get her ex boyfriend back .

She finally realized he wasn't worth it so she took a decision ; and continued her life in a new way and became the most successful lawyer that could ever be.

END OF THE BLOG...